Hi, Lily here once again with a random idea.
I was talking to a tarot card reader a couple of weeks ago, and we got to talking about relationships. Not too surprising, given it was a tarot reading—lol.
My biggest issue has been finding someone. Finding that person who fits me, and I fit them. We’re best friends, and we finish each other’s ‘sandwiches’. That’s the idea, anyway.
However, I have a big problem: I’ve never been in a relationship. So I have zero experience with what I want from a partner. I’m a couple of ’90s movie clichés at once. ‘40-Year-Old Virgin’ and ‘Never Been Kissed’ wrapped up in one package. I’ve only ever been on two dates in my life, and neither went further than a single meet-up.
This is where the advice from the tarot reader comes in. I need to make a list. That way, I have a better idea of what I’d want in a partner. I can’t manifest my person if I don’t know who that person might be.
So let’s create a list. Something to better bring my person into focus. To manifest them into my life. Below is my list, and I put it out into the universe with this blog post. My person, whoever you are, let’s go on a date!
Someone who:
- Is kind
- Is funny
- Is a witch
- Has black hair
- Is beautiful
- Is handy
- Will watch anime with me
- Is outgoing and an extrovert
- Is a woman or nonbinary person (parts don’t matter)
- Has goth or alt style
- Will take charge, but sometimes let me take charge
- Will go along with my crazy ideas
- Will go on adventures with me
- Will laugh at my stupid jokes
- Is gentle and firm at the same time
- Is successful in their career or path
- Will sing a duet with me
- Is a similar age to me
- Is honest and open
- Will let me snuggle whenever I want
- Will rock my world
Stay safe, everyone!


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